Nasty, Brutish & Long: Adventures in Old Age and the World of Eldercare
A psychologist with years of experience treating nursing home residents reveals the bureaucratic and sometimes heartless worl...
Read moreWilliam H. Colby, Long Goodbye: The Deaths of Nancy Cruzan. (Hay House, Carlsbad, CA: 2002).
Price: $19.57 from Amazon.com -- click on book to order.
When Bill Colby first heard of Nancy Cruzan, he was 31 and new to a large Kansas City law firm. An attorney with lots of energy but not much experience, Colby seemed the perfect person to tackle a case the firm had agreed to accept on a pro bono (free) basis. It involved a young woman who had been in a persistent vegetative state for more than four years. Her family was seeking court permission to have her feeding tube removed. A colleague assured Colby that the matter would probably amount to 'no more than a half-day trial in probate court.'
This book is Colby's spellbinding and moving account of how that half-day stretched into a three-year legal battle that changed forever the way Americans think and talk about death. In time, a blue-collar family from a small Missouri town would find itself thrust uncomfortably into the national spotlight, and Colby, the greenhorn lawyer, would find himself arguing the first right-to-die case before the United States Supreme Court.
Bill Colby is an exceptional storyteller, and his account of the Cruzans' long struggle to allow Nancy to die the death she would have wanted belongs solidly in the ranks of legal thrillers like A Civil Action and Erin Brockovitch. The real-life plot has more twists and turns than a detective novel and builds to several dramatic climaxes. Future attorney general John Ashcroft and future Whitewater prosecutor Kenneth Starr have cameo roles. Few will be able to put the book down.
But this is not simply the story of how Nancy Cruzan won the right to die, or of an inexperienced lawyer's trial by fire. The book also looks behind the scenes at the painful human cost exacted in a highly public legal fight. Most memorably, it is the story of Nancy's father, Joe Cruzan, a strong-willed sheet-metal worker who in Colby's skilled rendering becomes a tragic and unforgettable hero.
After reading Long Goodbye, those who have not done so will surely be moved to have 'the talk' with their loved ones'”a conversation that conveys their wishes regarding life-prolonging measures'”and to draw up a 'living will' that formalizes those wishes. If not, they risk being consigned to the state of half-death that Nancy Cruzan and her courageous family endured for seven anguished years.
To learn more about living wills and other medical directives, click here.
Local Elder Law Attorneys in Your City
A psychologist with years of experience treating nursing home residents reveals the bureaucratic and sometimes heartless worl...
Read moreBuried in both the House and Senate health care reform bills are important provisions that would make long-term care more aff...
Read moreAlthough their names are confusingly alike, Medicaid and Medicare are quite different programs.
Read moreMy father was placed in a nursing home six weeks ago and he will be applying for Medicaid. He has two cars: a truck that is p...
Read moreIn addition to nursing home care, Medicaid may cover home care and some care in an assisted living facility. Coverage in your state may depend on waivers of federal rules.
READ MORETo be eligible for Medicaid long-term care, recipients must have limited incomes and no more than $2,000 (in most states). Special rules apply for the home and other assets.
READ MORESpouses of Medicaid nursing home residents have special protections to keep them from becoming impoverished.
READ MOREIn addition to nursing home care, Medicaid may cover home care and some care in an assisted living facility. Coverage in your state may depend on waivers of federal rules.
READ MORETo be eligible for Medicaid long-term care, recipients must have limited incomes and no more than $2,000 (in most states). Special rules apply for the home and other assets.
READ MORESpouses of Medicaid nursing home residents have special protections to keep them from becoming impoverished.
READ MORECareful planning for potentially devastating long-term care costs can help protect your estate, whether for your spouse or for your children.
READ MOREIf steps aren't taken to protect the Medicaid recipient's house from the state’s attempts to recover benefits paid, the house may need to be sold.
READ MOREThere are ways to handle excess income or assets and still qualify for Medicaid long-term care, and programs that deliver care at home rather than in a nursing home.
READ MORECareful planning for potentially devastating long-term care costs can help protect your estate, whether for your spouse or for your children.
READ MOREIf steps aren't taken to protect the Medicaid recipient's house from the state’s attempts to recover benefits paid, the house may need to be sold.
READ MOREThere are ways to handle excess income or assets and still qualify for Medicaid long-term care, and programs that deliver care at home rather than in a nursing home.
READ MOREMost states have laws on the books making adult children responsible if their parents can't afford to take care of themselves.
READ MOREApplying for Medicaid is a highly technical and complex process, and bad advice can actually make it more difficult to qualify for benefits.
READ MOREMedicare's coverage of nursing home care is quite limited. For those who can afford it and who can qualify for coverage, long-term care insurance is the best alternative to Medicaid.
READ MOREMost states have laws on the books making adult children responsible if their parents can't afford to take care of themselves.
READ MOREApplying for Medicaid is a highly technical and complex process, and bad advice can actually make it more difficult to qualify for benefits.
READ MOREMedicare's coverage of nursing home care is quite limited. For those who can afford it and who can qualify for coverage, long-term care insurance is the best alternative to Medicaid.
READ MOREDistinguish the key concepts in estate planning, including the will, the trust, probate, the power of attorney, and how to avoid estate taxes.
READ MORELearn about grandparents’ visitation rights and how to avoid tax and public benefit issues when making gifts to grandchildren.
READ MOREUnderstand when and how a court appoints a guardian or conservator for an adult who becomes incapacitated, and how to avoid guardianship.
READ MOREWe need to plan for the possibility that we will become unable to make our own medical decisions. This may take the form of a health care proxy, a medical directive, a living will, or a combination of these.
READ MOREDistinguish the key concepts in estate planning, including the will, the trust, probate, the power of attorney, and how to avoid estate taxes.
READ MORELearn about grandparents’ visitation rights and how to avoid tax and public benefit issues when making gifts to grandchildren.
READ MOREUnderstand when and how a court appoints a guardian or conservator for an adult who becomes incapacitated, and how to avoid guardianship.
READ MOREWe need to plan for the possibility that we will become unable to make our own medical decisions. This may take the form of a health care proxy, a medical directive, a living will, or a combination of these.
READ MOREUnderstand the ins and outs of insurance to cover the high cost of nursing home care, including when to buy it, how much to buy, and which spouse should get the coverage.
READ MORELearn who qualifies for Medicare, what the program covers, all about Medicare Advantage, and how to supplement Medicare’s coverage.
READ MOREWe explain the five phases of retirement planning, the difference between a 401(k) and an IRA, types of investments, asset diversification, the required minimum distribution rules, and more.
READ MOREFind out how to choose a nursing home or assisted living facility, when to fight a discharge, the rights of nursing home residents, all about reverse mortgages, and more.
READ MOREUnderstand the ins and outs of insurance to cover the high cost of nursing home care, including when to buy it, how much to buy, and which spouse should get the coverage.
READ MOREWe explain the five phases of retirement planning, the difference between a 401(k) and an IRA, types of investments, asset diversification, the required minimum distribution rules, and more.
READ MOREFind out how to choose a nursing home or assisted living facility, when to fight a discharge, the rights of nursing home residents, all about reverse mortgages, and more.
READ MOREGet a solid grounding in Social Security, including who is eligible, how to apply, spousal benefits, the taxation of benefits, how work affects payments, and SSDI and SSI.
READ MORELearn how a special needs trust can preserve assets for a person with disabilities without jeopardizing Medicaid and SSI, and how to plan for when caregivers are gone.
READ MOREExplore benefits for older veterans, including the VA’s disability pension benefit, aid and attendance, and long-term care coverage for veterans and surviving spouses.
READ MOREGet a solid grounding in Social Security, including who is eligible, how to apply, spousal benefits, the taxation of benefits, how work affects payments, and SSDI and SSI.
READ MORELearn how a special needs trust can preserve assets for a person with disabilities without jeopardizing Medicaid and SSI, and how to plan for when caregivers are gone.
READ MOREExplore benefits for older veterans, including the VA’s disability pension benefit, aid and attendance, and long-term care coverage for veterans and surviving spouses.
READ MORE